My final day in India, and as I sit here awaiting my trip to the airport and home, I’m struck by how some of my perceptions have changed since this trip started. When I flew into Bangaluru over a month ago, I was overwhelmed by the traffic, dirt, poverty and intensity of the place. Today, I took a cab to Peter’s old office to return a cell phone and only on the way back did I realize we were passing along many of the same streets I had been on in early June. The sights of poverty etc that had struck me so hard then had blended almost into the background, even though they were the same. Likewise, walking the streets to get breakfast in the morning, I was undaunted by walking in the traffic, and I was nonplussed by beggars and hawkers.
There’s little doubt the trip has changed me in certain ways. For one, I’m a little harder and more selfish…there is just no way to survive over here if you don’t put up a cold wall to some aspects of Indian life. In this respect I’ve become a little Indian-ized. That has seeped into my interactions with people as well—I’m better able to express dissatisfaction with situations, such as contradictions in quoted and actual prices, without getting angry. There are also few situations now when I won’t immediately ask for a lower price. I wonder how this will all translate into life back in Canada? I don’t pretend to have been here long enough for these and other changes to enter strongly into my life back home, but regardless the short duration of the trip I’m not coming back exactly the same. I’m excited by that.
I’m also excited just to be home, and back around family and friends. While this is the first trip where I haven’t been anxious to get home—I’ve found a comfortable stride and like it out here—I am ready to be home. I needed a break and found some time to unplug and gain some perspective after the upheaval of the last 6 months. Through this trip the one truth I’ve figured out (I knew it before but this trip has reinforced it) is that it’s not so much what you do, but how, and with whom you do it. Whatever you do, if it’s done with integrity and with good people, great things happen. I have incredible people in my life, many who have helped me immensely lately (you’re probably one of them if you’ve been reading this blog) and I can’t wait to see you all again. Great things are afoot!
Cheers from India.
So for this post I’ll summarize two events from the news that fill me with hope that some of the darker elements of India are becoming nightmares of the past, and won’t continue to detract from the incredible energy that the country exudes.
The monastery is acclaimed to be one of the most striking in Ladakh, built up along the side of a rocky crag that juts out from the mountains into the Indus River valley. Of course, the structure of the monastery doesn’t change with the time of day, so why bother getting up at 5:30? My hope was to catch the morning puja of the monks, which includes deep bellows from their Tibetan trumpets.
so all I could manage was a glimpse of their colorful ceremonial caps and crimson robes as they shuffled down to the main prayer hall. Still, arriving when I did I was between the early morning wave of tourists and the ones who would arrive after breakfast, and I was left to take in the panorama of the surrounding valley in solitude, accompanied only by the sounds of the continuing puja wafting up from the prayer hall below.


At one point my guide Rana’s bottom bracket gave out on a climb up to the hill town of Naggar, and since losing your bottom bracket is like losing your transmission, for the rest of the ride I literally towed him up the hills we encountered so we could both coast down the opposite side. I contemplated asking for a discounted price as a result, but the comic look of two guys biking side by side, one apparently grabbing the other’s arse (but actually the saddle), was worth the extra sweat.
(speculation was rife that the driver was drunk or high, probably both) I arrived this morning in Manali and was immediately glad I decided to come north instead of heading east. While I’m sure Kolkata would have been interesting, after Dehli, Mumbai and Rajasthan I’m ready for a break from massive cities and heat, and it’s clear I’ll find a different world here.
as the first thing I noticed was the towering pines and the cool, refreshing air. Driving to my hotel, the similarity of the place to Whistler and the Rockies rather than anywhere else in India was apparent, except that at 450 Ruppees/night, a room with a terrace that overlooks the mountains and river is approx. 1/100th the cost of something similar in Canada.
As you tour the park you are literally surrounded by thousands of mosaics and sculputures, and each turn of the path opens onto a new setting with waterfalls and buildings that could have inspired Peter Jackson and his vision of Rivendell, except that when you get close you see that the full size buidlings are fashioned from materials like broken light bulb sockets and toilet porcelain (the Hinidware stamp, akin to American Standard, was visible more than once). A fantastic place.